In this episode of the Divorce Collective podcast, Danielle Young—family lawyer and family dispute resolution practitioner—discusses a question often asked by separating parents in high-conflict situations: Is the police station really the best location for child handovers?
Danielle explains why some families initially use police stations for changeovers, including concerns about safety and preventing false allegations. However, she explores the psychological and emotional impacts such environments can have on children and why they are not ideal long-term solutions.
From the unintended messages police station handovers can send to more suitable, child-centric alternatives like supervised changeover centres, school-based transitions, and mediation-based parenting plans—this episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating a difficult separation.
Key Discussion Points:
- Why police stations are sometimes used for child handovers
- The emotional impact on children of exchanging at a police station
- Unintended messages children may internalise in such environments
- Safer, child-focused alternatives including:
- Supervised contact centres
- School-based pickups
- Use of support persons
- Parenting agreements via mediation
- Supervised contact centres
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This podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal advice. For advice tailored to your specific circumstances, please consult a qualified family law solicitor.
