Dropping Anchor: A Technique to Manage Stress and Conflict During Separation (Ep 124)

Separation is rarely smooth sailing — and in the heat of conflict, emotions can quickly take over.

In this episode, Danielle Young shares a powerful and practical mindfulness strategy known as the Dropping Anchor technique — used to calm emotional storms and respond with intention, not impulse. Rooted in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), this simple three-step process helps you stay grounded during moments of high tension, especially in divorce and co-parenting conversations.

You’ll learn:

  • Why emotional reactivity escalates conflict — and how to avoid it
  • The 3 steps of the Dropping Anchor technique: 
    1. Acknowledge your emotions
    2. Connect with your body
    3. Engage with the present moment 
  • Real-life separation scenarios where this technique can de-escalate stress
  • How to regain emotional control and respond constructively — even in the face of triggering messages

Whether you’re dealing with legal proceedings, parenting schedules, or intense conversations with an ex, this episode offers a calming strategy you can use anytime, anywhere.

💬 Key Quote:

“You have the power to manage your emotional responses — even in the most challenging moments.”

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